As a Lifestyle Designer, I help accomplished women stop reacting to life and start living it with intention. I believe success shouldn't consume your life. It should support it! That happens when you become your own authority.
When you work with me:
Authority = who you become
Capacity = what you gain
Ownership = how you live
You will experience what it means to be the authority over your life and utilize that empowerment for your fulfillment.
You will gain the capacity to enjoy the success you have worked hard to build, be fully present with your family, and to think clearly.
You will have ownership over your life by living with intention, purpose, and fulfillment.
The Life By Design Experience™ is a highly personalized, private coaching experience for women committed to living and leading with intention.
Because of the depth of this work, acceptance is by application and conversation only.

"Absolutely amazing! This was just the life-changing experience I needed. Connie is an authentic spiritual leader, kind, inspiring, warm, and a true vessel of guidance. I can't even put into words how much she helped me find a peace I didn't know I could obtain. I will forever be grateful and know that I will be visiting periodically to maintain this newly discovered sense of self."
~Client Review
The Life by Design Experience is not about becoming someone new. It is about becoming the most aligned version of who you already are, and that is a woman who is no longer reacting to life but leading it.
Becoming a woman who:
1. Knows she will always okay, even when life is full
2. Has capacity instead of chaos
3. Realizes clarity instead of confusion
4. Experiences ease instead of exhaustion
When you stop managing life and start designing it, everything changes!
This work is not about making life “easy” but rather creating ease inside of a real, full, maybe even complex life. Ease comes from capacity. The capacity to hold emotion without being overwhelmed by it, capacity to communicate clearly instead of reactively, capacity to make decisions without second-guessing yourself, and capacity to lead without over-functioning for everyone else.
Efficiency is not about doing more, yet it is about removing internal resistance. When you operate from capacity, everything changes. You stop over-explaining, over-giving, over-thinking, and you start moving through your life with grounded clarity and calm authority.
Do you know your habits are not just routines? They are your identity in motion!
Every habit either expands your life or keeps it small. Therefore, together, we examine:
1. The habits that are currently draining your energy
2. The patterns that are quietly creating overwhelm
3. The distractions that are pulling you away from what matters
4. The emotional responses that keep you stuck in reaction instead of intention
5. How you can communicate with clarity instead of emotional overload
6. Set boundaries without guilt or justification
7. Who gets access to your time, energy, and resources
8. How to build relationships that are reciprocal and not depleting
9. How to develop emotional intelligence that creates stability instead of reactivity
10. How you step into your peaceful, powerful presence
We then (re)build from a place of alignment to design your life with intention and purpose.
At some point, success stops being about achievement and starts becoming about meaning. What do you want your life to stand for? What do you want to leave behind? What do you want your children, your colleagues, or your community to say about the way you lived?
Legacy is not built at the end of life. It is built in the way you choose to live right now in your presence, decisions, relationships, and in the way you lead yourself when no one is watching.
This time together will focus on ALL aspects of your life, including your health, your wealth, your mindset, your habits, your relationships, and your spiritual self. In order to stop reacting to life so you can own your life, your whole self will work together to design your life of fulfillment.
You have built a great life, but now you want to design your legacy
You are navigating midlife transitions and ready to design your life on your terms
You are a leader, entrepreneur, or professional done with juggling everything, overthinking, and not necessarily putting yourself last but also not putting yourself first
Your health conscious but tired of fighting your body or habits
You are ambitious and know you are meant for more, both personally and professionally

Working with Connie Jo has been one of the most transformative experiences of my life. Her gift as a hypnotherapist goes far beyond technique, she has an intuitive ability to guide you into a space of deep clarity, healing, and peace. Through her sessions, I’ve uncovered profound messages that have helped me quiet my mind and connect with a deeper sense of purpose and calm.
Connie Jo’s voice during hypnosis is incredibly soothing, instantly creating a space of trust, comfort, and love. She doesn’t just guide you through hypnosis; she asks the most powerful, insightful questions that help you discern the meaning behind your experience and how it can truly transform your life. Her presence is gentle yet deeply empowering.
I’ve had two sessions with Connie Jo, each completely unique and life-changing in its own way. I left both feeling renewed, awakened, and forever changed. Her ability to hold space and help you navigate your inner world is nothing short of extraordinary.
If you’re facing any kind of block in your life, whether emotional, mental, or spiritual, I wholeheartedly recommend making an appointment with Connie Jo. Be open to the journey, and you’ll be amazed at the messages and healing that await you. I’m endlessly grateful that she shares her incredible gift with our world!
Lizzie
Past Client

I was referred to Connie at a point in my life where I was experiencing debilitating overwhelm that seemingly came out of nowhere.
Within 30 minutes of my first appointment Connie was able to find a trigger from my childhood that was the root of it all.
After my first appointment my overwhelm went from a 10 to a 5 and after my second appointment it was a 1.
Connie was so intuitive and in depth with her therapy that I feel she helped me more in a couple of sessions than my regular therapist could have in a few years.
If you're on the fence about trying hypnotherapy, just do it!
My experience was literally life changing and I attribute that to Connie's knowledge in her craft, she's the best.
Connie has such a kind soul that you just feel comfortable in her presence and putting your mind in her hands.
Sarah
Past Client

Connie is amazing to work with. I reached out to her when I was in a pretty tough place, and I am so glad I did.
She is kind, caring, and really focused on how she can help you. She is very knowledgeable in her practice and will work with you to optimize your outcome from her services.
I wasn't sure how I would respond to hypnosis because I had never done it before, but I can say I have no regrets that I gave it a try. It worked well for me and was very different than any other treatment I had in the past.
If you're in a tough place and looking to try something new, I strongly encourage you to reach out to her. She helped me a lot, and I am so grateful.
Adrian
Past Client
I work with clients all over the world. I can work with you via Zoom or in person out of my Janesville, WI office.
What to expect when working with me
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ABOUT BU2BFULL, Inc.
A little about my professional experience: I am a certified life coach with Life Purpose Institute, a Master Life Coach with SMJ Institute, a certified hypnotherapist with the National Guild of Hypnotists (NGH) and the International Certification Board of Coaches and Hypnotists (ICBCH), a hypnosis training instructor with ICBCH, a health coach, author, keynote presenter, and a person with 30 years of corporate and non-profit managerial experience. I am also an ordained minister.
BU2BFULL, Inc. is my original registered company name. I have also created a dba of Confidence with Connie. The intention is that BU2BFULL Hypnosis and Coaching is for my one-on-one work with clients whereas my corporate-focused work with speaking and workshops utilizes Confidence with Connie.


Disclaimer: Hypnosis is a stand-alone, self-regulated profession and not a licensed medical profession. Hypnosis and Coaching is a natural and focused process to help you achieve the results you desire. Results vary and are different for each individual because we all have different life experiences. Your success will be contingent upon: your ability to follow instructions, personal follow through, and your desire for change. You are responsible for your experience and Connie Jo Holmes and BU2BFULL, Inc. do not accept responsibility for your experience. By reading content on this website or using these services, you agree to hold harmless Connie Jo Holmes and BU2BFULL, Inc. Hypnotherapy and coaching is not designed to be a replacement for medical assistance. If you are need of medical assistance, please contact your appropriate medical or psychiatric professional.
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